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"He can't be gay. He has kids."
I've heard this many times from heterosexual females in particular. Especially when it is regarding guys who they find attractive. Even...
"You don't look gay."
Being gay doesn't define my life. It's just something that I am. I stopped focusing so much on it when I learned to accept myself. I...
"How is your "lil friend" doing?"
So where exactly do I begin with this one? This cliche is connected to my parents, well my mom specifically. She would say things like,...
Lesbian couples are emotionally unstable.
This is a common stereotype - even within our own community. Many people say that women are generally "emotional creatures”. But to me...
"You just haven't been with the 'RIGHT ONE' yet.:
It's kind of hard to find something you're not looking for, right? For a man to think just because he's attracted to you that he can...
"You don't LOOK gay."
And she looks at him with a straight face and says: "You don't look gay." Well what does gay look like?... Is it the smile? The way he...
"Being a lesbian is just a phase."
A phase is a hairstyle, clothing or hobbies. The feeling I get when I'm in the presence of my woman, that feeling is electric and is...
"Studs want to be men."
As a proud lesbian I hear this ALL THE TIME and it is extremely annoying. Yes, we wear mens underwear from time to time. Why? Because...
"I just don't want you living that lifestyle."
ITS NOT A CHOICE! ITS NOT A CHOICE! There were days where I prayed it away, tried to sex it away (with women), went to pastors for prayer...
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